Dining with the King; your attire, attitude and mentality must change.
Everyone is special; every moment in our life is unique. However difficult or painful a situation may look at present, it soon becomes a memory and a special journey. Memories make us who we are, but it also starts declining with age. There are many ways to preserve these special moments so that we can cherish a story that's our own.
Unsolicited advice is usually more about the needs of the giver than the receiver.
Notice the difference between being in control and needing control.