Meeting a stranger can be totally fleeting and meaningless, for example, unless you enter the individual’s world by finding out at least one thing that is meaningful to his or her life and exchange at lest one genuine feeling. Tuning in to others is a circular flow: you send yourself out toward people; you receive them as they respond to you.
Bazı hisler, sessiz çığlıklar atar ve sadece biz duyarız, çıktıkları yerde hissederiz ve orada kalmalarını dileriz. Çünkü biliriz, bizi ve sevdiğimiz her şeyi yok edecek kadar güçlüdürler ve artlarında dumanı tüten ateşleriyle, diğerleri için bizden kanlı canlı birer ibret bırakırlar ge
Feelings come and feelings go. There is no need to fear them and no need to crave them. Be open to your feelings and experience them while they are here. Then be open to the feelings that will come next. Your feelings are a part of your experience. Yet no mere feeling, however intense it may seem, is your permanent reality.