I finally figured out that not every crisis can be managed. As much as we want to keep ourselves safe, we can't protect ourselves from everything. If we want to embrace life, we also have to embrace chaos.
Life, Protection
I wonder if being sane means disregarding the chaos that is life, pretending only an infinitesimal segment of it is reality.
Life, Sanity, Denial
We are the inheritors of a wonderful world, a beautiful world, full of life and mystery, goodness and pain. But likewise are we the children of an indifferent universe. We break our own hearts imposing our moral order on what is, by nature, a wide web of chaos.
Philosophy
Why do we mortals wonder if it is through 'human chaos' or through 'divine perfection' when the world guides us to some magical event? In either case, is not the result the same? Is the result not 'divine perfection?
Love, Inspirational, Philosophy
I tell you: one must still have chaos in one, to give birth to a dancing star. I tell you: you have still chaos in you.
I want you here. I don't care if it's a hundred degrees and every blade of grass dies. Without you, none of that matters to me.
Love, Death, Beautiful
You can’t get the blood out.
Death, Novel, Dead
The ocean pulsed outside our window. The sound of the waves crashing on the rocks below usually calmed me down, but the fear and chaos that were tangled in my mind made that an impossibility.
Life, Love, Death
Either we are adrift in chaos or we are individuals, created, loved, upheld and placed purposefully, exactly where we are. Can you believe that? Can you trust God for that?
Love, Inspirational, Trust
Happenstance is the myth of the simple mind, for it is the deliberate genius of God that what appears entirely disjointed always reveals itself to be stunningly seamless. And it is in reflecting on such stunning ingenuity that our faith becomes seamless.
Life, Faith, God
The poet knows that he speaks adequately, then, only when he speaks somewhat wildly.
Poetry, Language
Meditation, practiced individually and as a family, helps with a different type of peace. It is not a calm absent of noise and confusion but a calm that persists in the very center of the noise and the chaos. Ten minutes daily can transform your life.
Peace, Inspiration, Meditation
Others hide from being real by filling the air with words; the more words they throw out, the less actual communication happens and they are left with only an illusion of connection. This is the intimacy they so ardently seek but with these coping skills find so elusive.
Love, Relationships, Family
Being judgmental is a form of attack keeping others off balance.
Love, Relationships
Boundary violations are deeply experienced.
Codependency is a learned set of behaviors, thought processes, and habits. When combined together, they fit a very loose definition. All people exhibit these traits to some degree, but some of us allow them to dictate our relationships with others and ourselves.
Love, Relationships, Change
If we want to improve, first we have to recognize our own maladaptive coping skills, called codependency, then change.
This is what we desire in intimate relationships but this deep connection is often so frightful that most do not take advantage of the opportunities presented for honesty.
Love, Honesty, Relationships
It turns out that an eerie type of chaos can lurk just behind a facade of order - and yet, deep inside the chaos lurks an even eerier type of order.
Mr. Thomas, any scientist will tell you that in nature many systems appear to be chaotic, but when you study them long enough and closely enough, strange order always underlies the appearance of chaos.