Our reactions to events is directly promotional to their importance in our life.
Change, Attitude
The human ego prefers anything, just about anything, to falling, or changing, or dying. The ego is that part of you that loves the status quo – even when it's not working. It attaches to past and present and fears the future.
Change, Ego
Rapid change, accommodating it can be one of the great human capacities. But living through it can be the stuff of stress and often suffering.
Change
So close to the powers of evil she must have lived that she still breathed more freely in their air.
A great imperative imparts a wonderful impulse to the spirit.
Self Sacrifice, Motivation
You’re saying, “What the hell am I gonna do with her?” You’re saying, “Shit, did she take her pills?” You’re saying, “Once upon a time, I used to have a little girl.
Children, Depression
Children are barometers of the chaos that exists within their lives.
Children, Discipline
I have always felt that fear possesses such great power, enough to paralyze and quake an individual. Pondering this, I realized that the source of fear's power comes from within me. So, I ask myself, does that not make me the powerful one?
Fear, Power
Enlightenment is the Goal - Love is the Game - Taking steps are the rules! - Allan Rufus
Love, Knowledge, Wisdom
Life is like a sandwich!Birth as one slice,and death as the other.What you put in-between the slices is up to you.Is your sandwich tasty or sour?Allan Rufus.org
Excessive caution destroys the soul and the heart, because living is an act of courage, and an act of courage is always an act of love.
Love, Inspirational, Courage
The search for Nirvana, like the search for Utopia or the end of history or the classless society, is ultimately a futile and dangerous one. It involves, if it does not necessitate, the sleep of reason. There is no escape from anxiety and struggle.
Reason, Society
... rejoicing in a peace which brings only an increase of anxiety,...
Society
Our anxiety does not come from thinking about the future, but from wanting to control it.
Life, Future
La peur du lendemain est une plaisanterie comparée a celle de la veille. Et le destin n'est rien qu'un peu de passé en retard.
Destiny, Future
The pleasure of living and the pleasure of the orgasm are identical. Extreme orgasm anxiety forms the basis of the general fear of life.
Psychology, Pleasure
...the higher the expectations about unselected alternatives, the lower the level of satisfaction with the chosen good.
Psychology, Business
We are all the product of our past and have to live with our memories and personality they cannot be erased.
Psychology, Poverty
Worrying is the most natural and spontaneous of all human functions. It is time to acknowledge this, perhaps even to learn to do it better.
Psychology
Mattie sat at the table, obsessing, orbiting around herself. She was sick of her worried, hostile mind. It would have killed her long before, she felt, if it hadn't needed the transportation.
Obsession, Mind