What do you want? What are you willing to give up to get it? Writing requires you make sacrifices. Be prepared to work hard to be a writer.
Writing
You can only write by putting words on a paper one at a time.
Be prepared to work hard to be a writer.
People don't care how smart woman is as long as she's charming and gay and pretty.
Romance
Nobody speaks smut to my wife and gets away with it.
Women readers aren`t turned on by nice heroes any more than male readers lust after heroines who are too virtuous.There should be at least a hint,maybe even a promise, of corruptibility.
Men