Reviewing a book written by someone you're living with and sleeping with is, needless to say, wrong.
The study of history requires investigation, imagination, empathy, and respect. Reverence just doesn't enter into it.
And that's the point; not even girls want to be girls so long as our feminine archetype lacks force, strength and power. Not wanting to be girls, they don't want to be tender, submissive, peace-loving as good women are. Women's strong qualities have become despised because of their week ones.