Experts say that denying bad feelings intensifies them, acknowledging bad feelings allows good feelings to return.
Happiness, Acceptance, Denial
The First Splendid Truth: To be happy, I need to think about feeling good, feeling bad, and feeling right, in an atmosphere of growth.
Truth, Happiness, Growth
Laughter is more than just a pleasurable activity...When people laugh together, they tend to talk and touch more and to make eye contact more frequently.
Happiness, Relationships, Affection
Work harder to appreciate your ordinary day.
Happiness
There is a preppy wabi-sabi to soft, faded khakis and cotton shirts, but it's not nice to be surrounded by things that are worn out or stained or used up.
Happiness, Abundance
By mindfully deciding how to act in line with my values instead of mindlessly applying my rules, I was better able to make the decisions that supported my happiness.
Happiness, Values, Rules
This is one of the many paradoxes of happiness: we seek to control our lives, but the unfamiliar and the unexpected are important sources of happiness.
Happiness, Anxiety, Control
It's easy to make the mistake of thinking that if you have something you love or there's something you want, you'll be happier with more.
Happiness, Abundance, Money
... one flaw throws the loveliness of [everything else] into focus. I remember reading that Shakers deliberately introduced a mistake into the things they made, to show that man shouldn't aspire to the perfection of God. Flawed can be more perfect than perfection.
Mistakes, Humanity, God
Nothing,' wrote Tolstoy, 'can make our life, or the lives of other people, more beautiful than perpetual kindness.
Beauty, Tolstoy, Kindness
When I focus on the way "men" or "husbands" generally behave, I start to lump Jamie along with half of humanity. I find myself feeling angry or annoyed with Jamie for things he hasn't even done.
Marriage, Husbands
I always had the uncomfortable feeling that if I wasn't sitting in front of a computer typing, I was wasting my time-but I pushed myself to take a wider view of what was "productive." Time spend with my family and friends was never wasted.
Family, Time
I often learn more from one person's highly idiosyncratic experiences than I do from sources that detail universal practices or cite up-to-date studies.
Happiness, Learning
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