The moment that judgement stops through acceptance of what it is, you are free of the mind. You have made room for love, for joy, for peace.
Realize deeply that the present moment is all you will ever have.
every complaint is a little story the mind makes up that you completely believe in.
As soon as you honor the present moment, all unhappiness and struggle dissolve, and life begins to flow with joy and ease. When you act out the present-moment awareness, whatever you do becomes imbued with a sense of quality, care, and love - even the most simple action.
I have lived with several Zen masters - all of them cats.