But the truth doesn't need to be known, or believed, to be true.
As a child abuse and neglect therapist I do battle daily with Christians enamored of the Old Testament phrase "Spare the rod and spoil the child." No matter how far I stretch my imagination, it does not stretch far enough to include the image of a cool dude like Jesus taking a rod to a kid.
...we can say we love each other if my life is better because you're in it and your life is better because I'm in it.